After having a 1-1 conversation with the interested host, take some time to check in with them.
1) Thank them for filling out the 1-1 Conversation Eval: https://www.nativitychurch.org/1-1-conversation-eval/
2) Thank them for their interest in hosting conversations!
3) Share the 1-1 Conversation Guide and Outline: https://www.nativitychurch.org/1-1-conversation-outline/ . You can also provide a paper copy, which can be found in the church office or printed from this folder: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1eJj5GnKgWaztsyAh4hUkK6i4vrTKScvL?usp=sharing
4) Give them time to scroll it and see if they have any questions. We can always get back to them with answers at a later time if needed.
5) Before they go, cover the importance of being mindful while hosting 1-1 conversations by highlighting the following:
i. We aim to listen roughly 70% of the time and speaking roughly 30% of the time.
ii. We aim to listen without judgement and affirm their concerns without ‘fixing’ them.
iii. We strive to avoid microaggressions.
iv. Tips for Active Listening
v: Likewise, mirroring body language and repeating back what has been heard, affirms deep listening.
6) Thank them again. And Offer support anytime via yourself and or Kyle (Kyle@NativityChurch.Org) and end the conversation organically.